Showing posts with label Homeschool - High School. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Homeschool - High School. Show all posts

Friday, June 6, 2014

Encouraging the Love of Literature

 

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When I hear the term "Literature Analysis," I develop cold sweats. My mind is yanked back into the 11th grade and flashes back on eight page literary analysis essays, along with difficult and cryptic names for what should have been very simple. My compositions were forced and unnatural and my enthusiasm for reading all but dried up. Blech...no wonder I didn't pick up a quality piece of literature for years afterward!

It wasn't until I began homeschooling my children about seventeen years ago, that I began to learn to enjoy literature again. Following Charlotte Mason's wisdom to use living literature in our studies helped us to delight in the literature for the sake of the story. Reading each selection aloud, the children and I learned how to discover something fun from whatever we read. After that, we dove into a couple of years of Sonlight where we learned all about both World and American History and followed fascinating rabbit trails of exploration. With all of that reading, we never formally analyzed anything, yet our love and appreciation of literature grew by leaps and bounds.

During those years, we discovered that each book has a buried treasure, a hidden message to uncover. Most books are written by an individual and contain a distinct perspective. In each piece of literature the writer has a message to share or a lesson to teach. In a well written book it becomes the reader's pleasure to experience that lesson through the pages of a story, discerning the message and evaluating it for possible application. Sadly, many teachers insist on turning this experience into a dreadful exercise!

In our home, we keep literature studies simple...and apparently it's a successful endeavor. My children love literature and even more than that, we enjoy discussing it together.

Now before I tell you what we have done in our homeschooling, let me encourage you with a precious nugget of wisdom that I picked up from Ruth Beechick. If a child is curled up with a book, quietly reading to their heart's content, they are comprehending. If they look up at you to share something that is exciting, they are comprehending. If they giggle, or if a tear rolls down their cheek, they are comprehending. It is unnecessary to have them answer twenty questions about a book's content or to produce a book report for every book they read. We home school moms tend to worry too much! Early on, I chose to keep book reports and prefabricated comprehension questions at a bare minimum.

So how do I cover reading and literature in my home? Push the Easy Button here!

We have a daily quiet hour. This is a time in which the children go off to read a book of their choice. This is not assigned reading...but a quiet period, where they can enjoy whatever they have chosen to read for entertainment, edification...or whatever. Right now, my children are reading a variety of literature that run the gamut from "Encyclopedia Brown," by Donald Sobol to "The Giver," by Lois Lowry and for my oldest, "The Way of the Wild Heart," by John Eldredge. The importance of having the quiet hour is simply to foster a love of reading and self directed learning.

We read aloud every day. There is something special that happens when a parent puts on a character's voice. Children strain to hear every word, they sit forward in their seats and are often eager to discuss the material. There are so many great books that edify children with life lessons about a myriad of topics. From picture books to novels, there are wonderful examples of literature at every level of learning.

Unfortunately, some families give up on reading aloud because they have wiggly children. Please let me encourage you to work through the wiggles. The trick is in training younger children to listen and be still. I've done three things that have helped my children grow to love reading aloud.

1. When training young children for read alouds choose books that support their interests. If your child is all about surviving in the wilderness, then choose a book like "My Side of the Mountain," by Jean Craighead George or an adapted version of Swiss Family Robinson. Don't bore them with a book that will only make their minds wander. Remember, this is training...try to make it pleasant.

2. Allow young children to build with Legos or Lincoln Logs, draw pictures, or color while you read aloud to them.

3. Alternatively, read aloud to them at bedtime. They'll enjoy the snuggles and have something to dream about when the light goes out. As a plus, when they're in bed, they can't wiggle too far.If the wiggles persist, consider reading another season of picture books to allow a child a bit more time to develop listening skills. Don't give up, but be willing to find what works.

We learn vocabulary as we come across it. If we run into a word that we don't understand, we try to figure out the definition by it's context. If not, we look it up and say the sentence again, using the definition instead of the word being defined. I then read the sentence once more, this time using the word in question. I might write it down on an index card, but it's not often necessary. I've discovered that the word is usually assimilated and will pop up in my children's spoken and written vocabulary about six months later. (I don't know why this is true, but this has been our experience.)

We discuss literature on the fly. As we read a book we discuss it informally. We talk about whatever pops into our minds as we read. From imagery to characters, to the problems they face, or the obstacles they overcome, we talk about it all. I remember one conversation back when my oldest child was in the fifth grade. We came to a scene in the Lord of the Rings series where Mr. Frodo tells Smeagol that he should not call himself names. We talked about the wisdom of relying on God's truth about ourselves, that we are sinners...and yet precious to God. It was an opportunity to remember Jesus and how His estimation of us is that we are worth His life. Amazing. We made a memory and each of us remembers that conversation as a gift.

I use our read aloud time as a means to encourage my children to think. If a child can think, they can discuss...and eventually they will be able to defend their ideas and write about them in detail. (Usually in high school.) I use Bloom's Taxonomy as a very rough guide, a basis in which I lead my children in our discussions of literature. Bloom's assists me in evaluating where my children are regarding their thinking on any particular topic, literature or otherwise. It gives me a quick visual on where they each may be and assists me in stretching them to the next step in their thinking abilities.

I strive to give my children lots of experiences, talking about everything, asking many questions about opinions and thoughts. I really like to dig in, always looking for the heart. "How does that make you feel?" "What would you do differently?" "How does this information alter your opinion?" I guide my children through these discussions, keeping my feelers out for where they're at on the Bloom's chart with the goal of stretching them just a bit further.

By the time my oldest two children reached high school, they had developed adequate thinking skills to enable them to write. They needed a bit of encouragement in getting organized, but I discovered that if the thoughts were in their noggins, then the words eventually came spilling out onto paper.

Use movie versions of classics! I don't want to make this a blanket statement, because sometimes the movie versions of literature are awful. But there are quality motion pictures which might spark an interest in reading a great work of literature. "Emma," comes to mind, along with "Hamlet," or the BBC versions of Jane Austin classics. I'm also reminded of "Heidi," my favorite being the Shirley Temple classic. Use your discernment, of course, but I've found this an equally valid way to develop my children's thinking skills as well as create interest in a title that otherwise might be overlooked.

Furthermore, if you have a teen who just cannot make himself pick up a Jane Austin novel, then consider having him watch the movie, and discuss it along with him.

Cliff Notes or Spark Notes - Lastly, and used sparingly, I allow my children to use Cliff or Spark Notes. I do this only in the case of assigned reading as a substitute for a book that I feel won't work for us. This fall, in our chosen curriculum, one of the books assigned was Uncle Tom's Cabin. I pre-read it and I decided that one of my students would find it too heavy to dwell on. So, at the encouragement of my personal mentor, I will have them read the Cliff Notes and we will discuss the social points important to understanding the historical significance of the book. This will help them appreciate this work of literature without having to experience something that is too heavy for them to bear at this time in their life.

So, as you see, we keep literature analysis very simple. We may discuss literature elements like foreshadowing or denouement from time to time, but mainly our discussions center around the heart in the form of building thinking skills, learning life lessons, and enjoying the love of finely crafted words...literature.

Grateful for grace,



©2008 Y.M.F.

 

Updated Post from 2008

Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Homeschooling: Counting the Cost

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Standing in line at a used book sale, I overheard one mom telling another, "Anyone can home school. It's easy." I silently wondered how long she had been home schooling, because after seventeen years of educating my children at home, "easy," is not the adjective I would use. Yet, I remember those early years when I experienced many over-reactions to our new homeschooling lifestyle. I had just turned thirty when I chose to leave my job to home school my six and four year old sons as well as care for my newborn son. Friends, neighbors and family weren't very supportive. In response to their questioning, I found myself wearily defaulting to, "It's not that hard," or "It's not as hard as you think." To do over, I think I would approach the skeptics in my life a little bit differently. After all, my job as a home educator is not only challenging and deeply rewarding, but it is my calling. It is a God given privilege and a responsibility which has required sacrifice and trust in Christ.

When I talk to folks interested in homeschooling nowadays, I try to help them understand my responsibilities. If parents express a desire to home school their children, I encourage them to count the cost. Just as Jesus encouraged His apostles and disciples to count the cost of following Him, I think it is pertinent to give home schooling the same consideration. (See Luke 14:25-35) Likewise, if you feel called to educate your child in the public school system, counting the cost would be equally important.

Say I want to go on an extended road trip across America. I wouldn't just hop in the car one day and hope for the best, would I? No, I would consider my destination goals, gather necessary resources, determine possible obstacles, and I would make myself prepared. This way I would likely have a better experience. I would know, in advance, what is needed for the journey and I wouldn't be as surprised by any bumps in the road.

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Let's look at the idea of educating our children at home like a road trip. Home schooling is a serious endeavor. It is not just about reading, writing and arithmetic. To the three R's, we need to add relationships, responsibilities, and right thinking. Educating a child encompasses more than academics. It is a big job and there are no guarantees. (There are no guarantees to public or private school education either!)

So what are the costs involved with home schooling children?

Commitment - Homeschooling is not something that you fit into your life. Homeschooling is a way of living. It requires priorities, patience and perseverance. Along with beautiful days of happy children and fun memories, there will be hard days – filled with grumpy faces, tears of frustration and pint sized attitudes that beg adjusting. There will be days that mommy's attitude needs adjusting! (Been there, wear the t-shirt!) Moms and Dads, these are the days that we need to stand in faith. When God calls us, He equips us. Instead of running to the nearest public or private school, we need to run to God and obey. When faced with difficulties, we can reach out to older and wiser mentors, research possible solutions, and then prayerfully seek God for His will. Will we trust God to provide and persevere through the hard times? Will we seek Him, instead of relying on our own common sense or on the wisdom of the world's educational system?

Sacrifice - Homeschooling often requires one parent to be at home full time. A single income lifestyle has a way of helping families prioritize. We learn the difference between, "need," and "want." Our choices, by necessity, reflect our commitment to home education. If God calls us to homeschooling, we must be willing to follow Him, whatever that means in our particular circumstances. Will we be content to accept the sacrifices that homeschooling demands? (Giving up a second car? Stay-cations, instead of vacations? Being with children 24/7? Downsizing to a smaller, more affordable home? Becoming debt-free?) Homeschooling certainly has many wonderful benefits and blessings, but are we willing to receive whatever restrictions we may encounter as a result of our chosen lifestyle?

Obedience - Christian homeschooling is a ministry to our children. It is a commitment for our children's spiritual well being and a lifestyle that encourages deepening family relationships, while giving parents the freedom to bring their children up in the training and instruction of the Lord. (See Ephesians 6:4) Homeschooling our children gives us many opportunities every day to learn to actively love, respect, and forgive more like Jesus. Homeschooling is not just another way to educate our children. It is a calling. Will we heed that call? Will we lay down our lives for the good of our children?

There isn't a package that we can buy that will give us immediate homeschooling success. There will be detours, road construction, and a lot of rabbit trails. We will never be fully prepared to home school our children at the beginning of the journey, but if we are committed to following God and are willing to make the needed sacrifices, we can walk in confidence . God is faithful.
“Faithful is He who calls you, and He will bring it to pass.” ~1 Thessalonians 5:24

Be brave dear moms!

Grateful for Grace,

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Wednesday, May 14, 2014

Homeschooling: Ordinary is okay!



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For many years now I have watched countless homeschooling mothers stress over their children's future. For a time, I was definitely right there with them, but as I walked through the process of graduating my oldest two children from our homeschool program, and launching them into the world,  the Lord opened my eyes to the root of the stress.  For me, a lot of the stress came from fear.

Fear of not qualifying for scholarship money - Will he score high enough?

Fear of time running out to become prepared - Will we have enough time?

Fear of not getting into a good college - Will there be enough room?

Fear of the inability to overcome a learning disorder - Will he be passed over?

Blog posts, homeschooling forums, and article after article about the path to success heightened my fear.  The message was always the same:  Every child needs rigor, advanced classes and high SAT or ACT scores.  Yet, what happens if the student is unable to handle the pressure or workload of advanced classes, or if their SAT scores are only marginal - even after taking the test multiple times?  What if The Well Trained Mind produces a well developed ulcer?

Sadly, the world has trained moms well.  We begin to worry that our children face a life of labor, toil and never-ending hardship.  Fear pushes us into overdrive - we enroll our kids in remediation, cancel all their extra-curricular fun, pour on supplemental curriculum and life becomes all about performance.  We think the answer to average is to work harder, and harder....because our children can not...must not...be ordinary.  We believe that they must be exceptional in order to compete with the world.  We see this as the only path to success.  We've poured our hearts and souls into their education with the assumption that the only acceptable fruit is academic excellence.  All because the world has defined success by a single indicator - a college degree.

Last year I picked up a book called, One Tough Mother by Julie Barnhill.  Even though I was well beyond the toddler and elementary years, God used this book to show me just how early the fear begins to do its work in moms and dads.
"When did this inane aversion to anything less than stellar! And phenomenal! And distinctive! (heaven help us if our child doesn't stand out by age three weeks) overtake sensibility and put us on the Wacko Mommy Track of Overachievement and online shopping mall purchases of a Baby Einstein Mozart accompaniment - playing teething ring?"  - Julie Barnhill, One Tough Mother


Phenomenal? Distinctive?  Stellar? Sighs... How about normal, ordinary and decent?  I think homeschooling parents are particularly affected because we are entirely responsible for the breadth and depth of our child's entire educational experience.  We tend to over-analyze every minute detail of parenting.  We put so much heart effort into our children that we think those efforts will guarantee certain outcomes.  But are these expectations reasonable?  


Ponder these truths:

1.  Homeschooling does not produce perfect people. Homeschooled kids are just as apt as anyone else to sin.  They can be enticed and tempted.  They are not immune to making wrong choices. Instead of assuming that our children are safe from the wiles of the world, we should assume that our children are a part of the world.  They are sinners. When we see them accurately, as sinners, (though saved by grace when they believe), we walk in the light of Jesus and can actively live out the gospel.  Our hearts can be filled with hope in Christ, rather than hope in our children.

2. Homeschooled students don't always make high scores on standardized tests.  (They do score higher than their public school counterparts, but not every homeschooled student takes the SAT or ACT.) And here is the truth - it is okay. Standardized testing does not determine our student's future.  God does.  We must be careful to avoid defining our children by their ability to test well (or not).


3.  Not all homeschoolers are advanced.  Some students are average and others have learning disabilities.  Guess what?  That's okay!  Our students don't have to fit the same mold.  God created them and will equip them for life.  We don't have to force our kids to excel to an arbitrary standard.  Instead, we must join the Lord where He is already at work.  Let's focus on Jesus as we educate our children - stretching them from where they are to the next step for their individual progress.


4.  Along those same lines, not all homeschoolers are college bound. Don't assume that college is the best choice. We need to talk to our students about the direction the Lord is leading them.  We absolutely should encourage education, but we cannot assume that college is the only way.  Your children may have different, but reasonable plans for themselves.  As our teens grow towards adulthood, they must learn to rely on us less and follow Jesus more.






5.  Our children are allowed their own mistakes.  Every mistake, trial or hardship is an opportunity to know God more intimately.  Our children need these experiences, and in fact, these life experiences are often the catalyst for sanctification and a deepening relationship with Jesus. God uses everything to His glory for those who love Him.


A child's ordinary journey is often God's exceptional plan in disguise. While I would love my children to have lives that afforded them bountiful income and ease, I also know that God creates ordinary mechanics, cosmetologists, and water treatment plant operators too. He calls people willing to share the love of Jesus in all walks of life.  I am certain that He is well pleased with honest, hard working people in construction crews as well as those in boardrooms and surgical suites. The ordinary life is just as valid and valuable.

I took a lot of encouragement from David McCullough's commencement speech to the class of Wellesley High School in 2012.  In it he says:
"Climb the mountain not to plant your flag, but to embrace the challenge, enjoy the air and behold the view. Climb it so you can see the world, not so the world can see you.  Go to Paris to be in Paris, not to cross it off your list and congratulate yourself for being worldly. Exercise free will and creative, independent thought not for the satisfactions they will bring you, but for the good they will do others, the rest of the 6.8 billion—and those who will follow them. And then you too will discover the great and curious truth of the human experience is that selflessness is the best thing you can do for yourself. The sweetest joys of life, then, come only with the recognition that you’re not special." ~ David McCullough in his commencement speech to the Wellesley High School class of 2012.

Moms, let's home educate our children not with the goal of getting them into college, but rather, let's embrace the challenge of growing children into intellectual, compassionate, loving people who will bless the world with kindness and care.  Let's learn with our children, encouraging each other to be more like Christ everyday.  Let's not give in to fear.  If we focus on Christ, and prayerfully encourage our children to walk in the way that He made them, if we teach our children to be like Jesus - then their future will be secure.

For further reading check out Redefining Success and Celebrating the Ordinary at the New York Times.

Grace and peace,

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Tuesday, March 13, 2007

Movies as Literature by Kathyrn Stout - A Review



I received this program in the mail last week and I've liked it so much I've wanted to do a review.


In a nutshell, I considered using this curriculum last year, but in the end was afraid it would be too much like Ms. Stout's other guides. I've found her guides helpful but too bare bones for me. I need more hand-holding.


I was pleasantly surprised to see that this program is a full curriculum, containing both a teacher's manual and a student workbook.


At the front of the manual we find guidance on what to do before, during and after watching the movie. The teacher's manual has all discussion and composition questions with answers provided. In addition, it provides guidance on how to make Movies As Literature an honors course. An exciting bonus is that each unit has activities for extended study. These assignments may range from reading a book or comparing and contrasting another movie, to watching for propaganda in commercials or reading a Shakespeare play.


This course can be used with younger middle school children, but it's recommended that only the first six movies and their units be used. (In looking through the unit pages I believe that this is because the units become progressively more difficult as the children are trained in discernment. They must have strong thinking skills, such as those that come with developmental maturity.) There are reproducible pages of the student workbook in the teacher's manual, but it's probably less expensive to purchase the student workbook. That said, I could have easily used the teacher's manual as the textbook and had my son write his answers on notebook paper or in typed format.


Both the student workbook and the teacher's manual contain a glossary of all literary terms for easy access. Many of the movie units list the book from which they were derived. In some instances, reading the book is assigned...but with honors credit if I remember correctly. There are usually two or three composition assignments to choose from in each unit. This makes it much easier to assign an appropriate composition assignment based on our children's strengths and weaknesses.


The movies included in the course are:



Shane
Friendly Persuasion
The Quiet Man
Arsenic and Old Lace
The Music Man
E.T. The Extra-Terrestrial
The Maltese Falcon
Rear Window
Emma
The Philadelphia Story
The Journey of August King
To Kill a Mockingbird
A Raisin the the Sun
Raiders of the Lost Ark
Henry V
A Man for All Seasons
Chariots of Fire



I'm very excited about this curriculum and I feel that it will be an awesome addition to our program next year.


Movies as Literature can be purchased from Design-A-Study. Invidivual movie units are available for $5.00 with that amount being credited back to you should you decide to purchase the full curriculum. I found it a bit less expensive at Christian Book Distributors.

Friday, January 26, 2007

A Noteable Blog


I've never been much of a blog reader...until lately. I've recently come across this one and found it worthy of mention.

http://www.guiltfreehomeschooling.blogspot.com/

I haven't read every article...but it appears to be a treasure trove of wisdom and encouragement. Check it out when you have a few minutes. I suggest combing through it over a couple of days. Looks like excellent coffee break material. (Or tea, for those of you who enjoy that better.) I think I'll curl up with some hot chocolate later tonight to read more.